Pierced!

So we were planning on a camping trip up North to Tweed, but it ended up being cancelled for a few reasons, one of them being the weather was going to be terrible. Then we thought of going to Wasaga Beach for the weekend and get piercings, but that ended up falling through, well the beach part did. We just got back from a place called Immortal Impressions in Keswick. Em got her belly button pierced and I got my nipple done! Whoever has had this done and says it didn't hurt... Liar. It is a pretty intense pain but it is only for about 5 seconds. Seems a lot longer than that when it is being done, but I like it... so does Em ;) So I haven't exactly told my parents but they know we went to the place. My dad is probably going to hate me for the next day or two but he will come around. I think he is just afraid of me turning into some pierce addicted nut job, which has no chance of happening lol. One piercing in my left nipple is enough for me. Tattoos are different, I already have one on my right shoulder and I think I will end up with a couple more at some point. Feels good to be working now and more freedom with my money. Now if I feel like going out and paying someone to stab me with a needle, I can lol.

Whiskeys

I know it's been entirely too long and you guys are probably starting to get so bored with us, but Brad is beginning to lose interest since the following hasn't climbed lately, and we've both been super busy at work. I wanted him to write this post because I know this is all he can talk about, but I have some time now so...

Friday night we went to Whiskey's, famous strip club around here, for our friend's 19th birthday. We got a little drunk off tequila on the way so within the first hour our friends had me up on stage with a naked blonde lathered in baby oil with a five dollar bill in my mouth. I don't know if Brad's been prouder and I wouldn't be surprised if the entire lawn crew heard about it today because everyone else has... Apparently a girl who not only wants to go with her boyfriend to a strip club but also gets up on stage is worth holding on to for dear life.

The rest of the weekend was low-key because my hangover lasted about 24 hours, and it was of course Mother's Day on Sunday. My mom was out with my grandpa, so I celebrated with Brad's family at the horse race tracks for brunch. His sister is over from Scotland now with her husband and eight month old daughter who is soo freakin cute. All I do when I'm over at his house now is play with her and try to make her laugh, which isn't hard.

It's just been really nice lately, the two of us are good :) And the long weekend is coming up!!! We're going to Tweed with friends for a huge four day long party that we're camping out at. Hopefully more crazy stories to come that will inspire Brad too. Don't give up on this Babe, I would miss it.

In The End

I have the morning off work today because the weather is cool and it looks like it might rain. All I want is to be over my cold for good, so I won't be going in til 11 when Brad comes back for me. We woke up together this morning so I'm wide awake now and thought I would take the time to update our blog.

After the whole ex factor this week, I've been feeling really weird. I know she still has feelings for him, and he knew that too so it made me question why he would have spent so much time with her. As each day went by this week, I found out more and more things she had told him, and it just made me angrier and angrier because at the same time she had been messaging me apologies and trying to defend herself. But no matter how I look at it, it's not right to tell your ex boyfriend you have regrets and wish things could have worked out, especially when he's moved on and is happy now.

I was also really mad at Brad for not telling me everything upfront. I know he deems it unimportant and irrevelent because me knowing would only hurt me and not help the situation, but I don't want to feel lied to either.

Anyways, I've written her back once to let her know how I feel about the situation incase she didn't get it Monday night when I went to her house to steal Brad away. I'm finished with it now, and Brad is sorry. What I learned from this is to always be honest in the first place if you have a problem with something, and if you miss your chance, try to talk it out rationally afterwards. I also realized that if you trust someone than you trust them 100 percent. Don't question their motives, and take what they're saying at face value instead of overanalyzing, or else you don't trust them at all.

I trust Brad 100 percent. We love each other more than anything and that's really the only thing that counts in the end.

The Ex Factor

I guess I should update everyone a little bit since it has been a couple of weeks since I wrote on here. My little vacation to Florida was great. I enjoyed just spending some time with my parents, golfing, shopping, drinking... the works. It was a pretty relaxing trip until getting home. I had to be up for work the very next day, so far that has been good though. Emily even started working for the same company to take care of all the gardens. Even though I don't really see her much during the days, it is nice to know that she is there.

Aside from work, my ex girlfriend called me not too long ago and asked if we could grab a coffee sometime and catch up a little bit. I dated her for about 2 years in high school and thought why not? When I told Em that I might go grab a coffee with her and catch up a little, she was fine with it. So after work I dropped Em off at her house to take a shower and get ready for the rest of the night. I told her that I would be about an hour maybe. I went to my ex's house to pick her up and head out. We talked about lots of things, family, school, life stories. We ended up talking for a couple hours longer than I had planned, and it was then that I decided to call Em and tell her I would be back to pick her up in about 20 minutes. I realized as soon as I told her this that she was actually mad at me. At first I didn't understand, Em kept telling me to just come pick her up now. She was really upset so when I didn't pick her up she ended up coming to us. When we left she started yelling at me because she thought I spent too long out with my ex and I had ditched her. I told her it was nothing like that and that I just didn't realize we would be catching up for that long. Em kept telling me that I should have called when I knew I wouldn't be back when I said I was and I agree, I should have, but it was the way she was talking to me, it got me so frustrated and angry. We argued about it for a little while on the way home, but when we got back to my house we sat out in the driveway to calm down and talk about it. We both spoke to each other and said what was on our minds. Once everything was put out in the open, it made a lot more sense to me that I had just put Emily in an awkward spot and really should not have. When I realized this, I told her that I was sorry and if I had known how she really felt about it, I wouldn't have gone in the first place. When it was all figured out, I told her that I promise I wouldn't put her in an awkward situation like that again.

Sorry Bubbs

Boo's Back

After sending each other really corny e-mails with subjects like Hubba Bubbles and Bootilicious (our nicknames for each other are Boo and Bubbles), Brad's home now :)

He called on his way home from the airport last night and had a lot of funny flight stories. Then we went out for an early dinner and back to his place. We got busy pretty much everywhere, on the couch, bed, against the wall, armchair, and back to the bed.

We almost made him late for picking up his brother and friend at the airport. I had to go with him instead of being dropped off at home first to make it on time. But we ended up waiting in the car for about a half hour anyways. Those boys had a lot of funny stories too, it makes me not want to get on an airplane ever again.

We may take another vacation out to his parent's house in Florida this November. I haven't been there in almost a year.

But, it's good to have him home now :)

Greetings from..... Stouffville.

Oh, I stood up Brad last night for our MSN date at midnight. Maybe make it up to him tonight? It's funny how many ways there are to keep up with each other now: MSN, e-mail, twitter, facebook, and our blog. It's ridiculous how many sites you have to check. Wish I could just pick up the phone but it's some crazy long distance, and he'll be back in no time anyways. But I still miss him and always want to tell him every single thing that's happening, especially with me moving now, things are so exciting. By the time I go to write an e-mail I forget everything, haha. Anyways I should go resume my lazy day! Hope you're having a good time Baby xo

Greetings From Florida!

I arrived today in Florida at around noon to some nice hot weather, but now it has turned into one wicked thunder storm. I always love watching storms like this, not really sure why, it is just fun to watch the lightning and hear the thunder crack. I was picked up today in my dad's new toy, a Shelby GT 500 Mustang! I'm not sure if those who follow this blog will know what I am talking about, but it is one of my favorite cars in the world, so it was pretty awesome.

Tomorrow I am going golfing with my parents, then the rest of the week will probably be a couple days of shopping as well as a trip or two to the beaches. Shopping down here is great because everything is so cheap, even top brand clothing. My brother will be coming down on Friday with a friend of his to do some shopping of their own. They are looking into investing in a house since the real estate market is so shot right now, hope it works out well, I may even be in on it. I will keep you updated on how the vacation is going with me.

Missin you already Bubbles.. xo